Me and My Girls
A few weeks ago I finally started to work on the girls 2nd year albums (I know, I am WAY behind with my own albums!) and realized that I was rarely in any pictures. To a large degree it is because I am always behind the camera, chasing after Victor and the girls. But partially it is because for the longest time I did not want to be in the pictures -I felt that I did not look good enough and did not want to be captured for prosperity with the 15 lb of baby weight that I still needed to loose….I kept telling myself – ‘once I get in shape I will have plenty of images of me and the girls’. But a lot of time passed by and with the exception of two professional family sessions we since the girls were born, I was rarely in any of our family images.
But recently I had an epiphany: I realized that 10, 20, 30 years from now I would not care if I still carried the baby weight around. What I would care about is having images of me as I was – loving my girls and enjoying every minute with them. And what’s even more important – these images will be priceless for Mia and Alexa – I want them to be able to see how much they are loved. So this Mother’s Day I threw my vanity out the window and asked Victor to photograph me and the girls.
As I was working on these images afterwards caught myself smiling as I was looking at them – they brought back pure joy and love of that day. And although I don’t look like my pre-pregnant self, I don’t care …well, not much anyway:) – these images are honest, authentic and they capture us as we are at this moment.
So if you are like me and have been putting off having a having a family session because you don’t believe you look your best – reconsider. Don’t do it for your current self – do it for your kids. And I am sure that your future self will thank you as well:)
and it would not be right not to include at least one image of Victor because even though I was in front of the camera for majority of the day I did manage to get a few images of Victor:)
Kirsty-Abu Dhabi - Oh my goodness – these are gorgeous – a picture of joy – really. And such a true message – our kids don’t care what Mum looks like – as long as they’re loved and happy and content – and that totally shows through in all of these
Rebecca - Wow, I so needed to see this blog and your photos! I am a photographer for everyone else, but I rarely am in pics with my twin three year old girls. My mom will take pics sometimes but it’s when i don’t have make up on, or my clothes aren’t ” picture” outfits, so I don’t like having my pic taken. I want to hire someone To take our pictures because my hubby doesn’t know how to use my camera like I do. But he doesn’t want to spend the money. I may set a time over memorial weekend to have my dad take pics of me with my girls. It is so important to have those, you have convinced me. These are great, and you are beautiful! Thank you for posting this!
Holly G - Great captures of a beautiful young family!
Rosanna - These photos are so sweet! They look like they had so much fun! Love the lifestyle look!! They are all beautiful!
Amanda - As a photographer I can also relate…I’m hoping to get our family pictures done next year. Very cute…looks like you had a ton of fun!
Autumn Branscome - What a sweet, sweet post. Your girls are adorable!
Kelly R - Too precious! Love these fun family moments. What adorable girls!!!
Nikki - Beautiful photos, and wonderful blog. It’s true that these precious times will be remembered way more than whether Mom was carrying a few pounds. But really, you look amazingly beautiful! 🙂
Caitlin - These are just wonderful! What a great thing to have to remember this time in your life. 🙂
Susanne - These are so beautiful, Lena! And I wholeheartedly agree! Coming from a girl whose mom passed away when I was a teenager… she was hardly in any pictures (for the same reason that most women avoid being in pictures), and so now I feel the need to be in pictures with my kids as much as possible! Posting them online is another story, but at least we have them! 😉
Christina Corneau - i completely agree with you. I need to get in front of the lens so much more!! I love this shoot – I’m sure your girls do too!!
Shannon Jones - Great idea and everyone looks so happy!
Amory - great reminder!
Lacey - I literally JUST inquired with one of my favorite photographers about doing a family session for the exact reasons you posted!
I love the joy captured in yours!
Jill - I never knew the “pre-pregnant” Lena, but you look pretty fantastic! (Love that you have a beautiful bag in the first pics)
Erin - Couldn’t have said it better myself! It’s so important to get in front of the camera. Beautiful pictures!
robin - Great post and beautiful images! These will be cherished by your girls!
Monica Wilkinson - Awww..you can just feel the happiness!! 🙂
Brandy Jaggers - LOVE these! I need to get out with my boys and do this soon…
Amanda - Wow! What beautiful girls! Great images!
Jen - You are absolutely right!! It’s so important to have some with you so your kids can have them later!! Lovely shots!
Emily - LOVE!!
inna - love the way you guys came out!
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